{"id":5425,"date":"2024-03-30T03:49:02","date_gmt":"2024-03-30T07:49:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kingdomresourcesforchrist.com\/?post_type=article&#038;p=5425"},"modified":"2025-08-11T18:38:25","modified_gmt":"2025-08-11T22:38:25","slug":"forgiving-those-who-dont-apologize","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/e-krc.org\/ch\/article\/forgiving-those-who-dont-apologize\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5173\u4e8e\u9976\u6055\u4e0d\u9053\u6b49\u7684\u4eba"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading5425_9952bc-ec, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading5425_9952bc-ec[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading5425_9952bc-ec\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading5425_9952bc-ec mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading5425_9952bc-ec[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading5425_9952bc-ec\"] 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